Maturity, Exposure and Why being Millionaire is never Enough

If you look at the rich and sophisticated, they always emanate a very limited set of expressions and movements with their body language. The rich, though practice that, with time and surrounding. But how is a limited expressive nature considered a better virtue? It generally attracts more praises than when being over-reactive to things does. The more the places and the people you meet, the more one gets used to various kinds of experiences and the deeper one's understanding of life; hence, naturally eliminating the element of curiosity/surprise/shock from various scenarios and also, thus generating a cold sort of response.

When a person doesn’t react much he is deemed as matured because normally it is a case of “been there/done that”. When a guy A in a club, shows off his BMW M6, and all his friends react with an open mouth, shaking their hands in its awe, except one. This guy B stays just the same, only nodding his head in acknowledgement. Naturally, guy A will respect guy B the most, because subconsciously it will deliver an impression that, guy B has already seen many such cars, which may or may not be true. So not reacting much, is a symbolical language to the sub-conscious, of one's experienced life time (whether he has the experience or not, if not then it becomes a subconscious hack). The getting used to part makes one bored of everything which in other words is also called being "cool". Another example would be a man, in his 30’s, who has never been on an air-plane, will be too excited being in one for the first time. If he is uncontrollably smiling during the whole journey looking around and being all jittery, chances are he would attract a lot of irritation from the passengers around him. Another example, if one goes to a Europe tour and doesn't share the pictures back with his friends, they will think he has seen enough of them. But if he sends picture of every damn corner then they'll take him as an over-excited-yet-to-see-so-much individual. The same goes with money but in a different implication. If I have, say $50 million, I will be happy for a week or probably a month. When I get used to that, I would want to make more, to just keep me excited, motivated and going in life, more than staying in the competition or stamping off power.

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Another aspect related to maturity is the eye brows. A set of raised eye brows slowly comes down, closer to the eyes than before, as the person grows. The raised eye brows define curiosity and lack of confidence. And the eye brows that are slightly more relaxed and lower, are signs of maturity, because such a person displays a body language of content and lack of relative curiosity, he had in his younger days. Maturity is also defined by the blinking of eyes. When you are young you will blink fast but as you grow, you develop the confidence of not having to keep one's eyes open without leaving a fraction of second, since now one becomes more assured of his surrounding so much so, that he blinks with much more relaxed-self, taking more time. Along with eyes, even the voice plays an important role conveying the message of maturity. With age, our voice starts relaxing more, again from the source of an assured self. Hence it starts getting heavier with time, for boys as well as girls, because you become more relaxed with life in all, you develop more confidence in your existence. The voice change during puberty is hormonal, but it starts coming from a lower region, with experience, and keeps getting lower from the 20's until 40's and sometimes even 50's. Thus a heavier voice in a man, is probably sexier than a squeaky voice, but the same doesn't apply for women, as a man never looks for confidence or wisdom from women, just a luscious fertile body.

Now if some young kid is insensitive because of his inherent nature, people will still respect him more than the talkers or the over-expressers because he has already hacked the sub conscious of the observer telling him in a deceptive way, "I am Matured". Anything reactive is sensitive, and anything sensitive is weak, for it to get tough it has to condition itself with the same experience over and over. Similarly, anything insensitive (matured in human terms) is strong because, it is more stable and thus more trust worthy, outside conditions have lesser impact on their lives, be it in their discipline or their efficiency of output, probably why machines give you a better accuracy than humans.

P.S: The maturity I am talking about here is the not the dictionary "Maturity", it is the "image of Maturity".

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