Don’t Smile, You’re Not on Camera
"Smiling", like "Thank You" ( previous post ) has been thoroughly encouraged, the more the better. But there is one kind of smile that one should always avoid: the "Insecurity-Smile" (more popularly called the sheepish smile). There is a section of people who smile all the time, and the smile doesn’t come out of a relaxed confidence self, but from a strong discomfort. These people keep smiling, on every instance. Suppose a group of people are sitting and gossiping, there will be one guy who will be 'bogus-smiling' to all the silliest jokes, not exactly because he enjoys them but because he wants to be liked by the person and the group, especially if the person making the so called jokes is of good importance. And chances are this guy is new to the group, and in efforts to win the belief of "belonging", he will keep doing it, sometimes even going overboard by unknowingly smiling to something which wasn't meant to be smiled at. Whe...